Why You Need a Vacation

Hazy sunset over pier and trees, from my recent vacation

I just returned from a lovely beach vacation in the Florida panhandle, so this seems like an opportune time to talk about the value of vacations.  A recent survey found that just over half of U.S. professionals don’t use all their vacation days, and the number is even higher among Millennials (especially Millennial women).  That’s despite the fact that Americans already have fewer paid vacation days than Europeans.  But taking a vacation isn’t a luxury.  There are very good reasons to take some time off and get away (aside from the fact that not taking your paid vacation days means you’re leaving money on the table and essentially volunteering).   Read more

Letting Go of Shoulds

Photo of the author on a golf course
Me, back when I sometimes played golf, and wore polo shirts

I have a confession to make: I don’t really like golf.  I mean, it’s okay.  If I were forced to spend an afternoon playing golf, I wouldn’t hate it.  I’d probably enjoy being outdoors and socializing as I made my way through 18 holes.  But I don’t love it.  The few times I’ve played a full round of golf, I got pretty bored by about the 11th hole.  Golfing is okay, but it wouldn’t be my first choice for how I want to spend my free time and money.

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Quote of the Week

“I don’t think that fear is the problem.  I think the problem is that we often don’t know what to do with our fear.  We don’t know how to acknowledge it for what it is — which is a feeling which might be giving us some information about the world, but it’s also giving us information about ourselves.”

–Kim Brooks, in an interview with NPR

Black-and-white monotype of studio interior

Project 333: Who’s With Me?

A photo of my 33-piece fall wardrobe

Over the past few months (years?), a thought has occurred to me with increasing frequency: I spend a LOT of time, mental energy, and money on what I wear.  From reading fashion blogs, to planning the next day’s outfit, to trying to find the perfect companion for that unique item I bought, to online shopping, to trying on and returning purchases, clothes and accessories have claimed too much of my life.  So I’m ready to say enough.  It’s time to refocus all that energy and money on more important things.

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