Happy Mother’s Day! Let Me Introduce You to My Mom

A photo of the author and her mom
Me and my mom, Alice

Becoming a parent has given me many opportunities to reflect on my own childhood.  As I interact with my baby, I imagine my own parents caring for me.  I understand better than ever the sacrifices they made and the joys and worries they felt.  So today, my first Mother’s Day as a mom, I pay homage to my own mom.

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Why We Shouldn’t Judge Others Based on Perceived Health

Drawing of a reclining woman, Brown conte crayon on brown paper

A few days ago, I came across a word I hadn’t heard before: healthism.  I was curious, so I looked it up.  The word describes a kind of philosophy I’ve noticed in recent years.  It’s ubiquitous on social media, and it most often rears its head in the form of fat shaming.  Healthism refers to several related ideas:

  1. Health is a virtue in and of itself, something that should be an ultimate goal, rather than a means to other ends;
  2. To be unhealthy, or to practice unhealthy behaviors or habits, is a character flaw; and
  3. The state of a person’s health can be determined from their appearance.

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